I don't want to say anything to upset anyone but I think spanking shouldn't be necessary. You can control/manage your kids without spanking. I belive parents who are frustrated and does not know how to deal with the situation spanks. And I don't think you are giving right message to your kids by spanking. They will learn that spanking is OK. Which is not. Hurting your own child or somebody else's child for the sake disciplining ....? Errrr no. They are children they don't know what is right or wrong and certainly your are not being a good example by spanking them.

And also, no disrespect to any religion but kidslove, did you know that in bible it says that you can kill children? It's in Hosaya, Im sure i spelled it wrong. So this means to me that Bible isn't always right. I hope I did not offend you.