Ladyjbug, you are right. All of us are right I think. I just have to adjust some of my policies to a max of hours/day or extra fees will be invovled. I also have to learn to let go of some of the stuff parents may/may not do that bothers me because I do not want to feel irritated or annoyed at someone. Negative feelings are so tirering and honestly I decided to do this to be happy.