BTW ~ you do not have to count the 12 year old in your ratios so you would only be 2 over ... the DNA only applies to children 0-10 years of age.
Unfortunately the 'rules' are that you can have no more than 5 children between the ages of 0-10 regardless of the number of adults present ... otherwise you could argue you hired the 12 year old as a helper during that time frame you were over![]()