Just wanted to share a cool arrangement that's been offerred to me with an acquaintance. We live right across from my 7 year old's school. A family (with 3 kids that go to this school) moved into the neighbourhood from out of province & we've been chatting at the park; great family & very well behaved kids. Mom just got a new job & will need care for 1/2 hour before school 2 days a week only. She has suggested that in lieu of fees if they would take our 2 for a couple of evenings (we've so wanted to plan regular date nights but just can't swing Childcare + date costs...so this offer REALLY appeals to me). Here's my problem; for the 1/2 hour (7:30am to 8am) on those 8 days a month these 3 (school age, ages 4, 8, 12) children will put me over my numbers. Do I risk it? My main group arrives anywhere from 7am to 8:30am.