Agreed Kangaroomama ~ have to weigh if the benefit is worth the risk when delving into 'grey areas' .... I do not t hink they would not shut you down for a play date likely just 'warn you' the first time if you were reported by someone ... my concern is not the Ministry of Education but my 'insurance' not covering play dates between two providers due to the grey area with this being 'legal or illegal' depending on interpretation of the DNA.