From my experience (as posted) I wouldn't hold off for it to get 'better'. That's what I've done for the past 10 months and it hasn't gotten better. I still get the blank stares every time I ask him to help clean up or put on his shoes. I get the bouncing around at nap time and whining when I ask him to eat something or to stay out of a certain room. He totally freaked out today when mom got to the door and that's a normal occurence lately. For you, it just doesn't sound like a proper fit if you have 'that' feeling.