So she texted me after she read it and said she understood but that they would not need the whole 5 days and that maybe we could lower it to 3 or 4 full days. We talked for a bit...and then she spoke to her husband. Apparently, he's upset. But I made it clear to her that it's his "fault" I'm taking it away; because I was always having to chase him for shoes, milk, wipes, proper napping. He just didn't get it and I knew he didn't care. So she knows it's his "fault" lol and she said he's frustrated and that he enjoys his time with his son. Which is all fine and dandy, but he was taking him out all the time, never offering him a stable morning routine, and that's no good for anyone. i made it clear that it was just too stressful for me to continue that way and that is behaviour is exceptional when he does full days. Story developping..they may choose to take him out, which would be super sad because even though he's been a CHALLENGE, I have grown attached to him.