So mom and dad picked him and up and we came to a compromise. Instead of half days in the afternoon, the half days will be in the morning. They were worried about money and they have another baby on the way, so I totally understand their worries. I really didn't want them to take him out, but I think they knew I was at my wits end. The day before I sent them the letter, I answered the door - my hair a mess, sweating and practically in tears (not just because of their son, and I explained that to them, but I think they still felt mostly responsible). Anyways, they said they would send me the new hours today. So, we'll see. I think it'll be ok but I would like to leave this discussing open ended because I have a feeling they're going to do something I don't like lol they never do anything they say they're going to do so we'll see lol