Re: giving too much info. I agree, I am a BIG helper! When I have new parents, I always want to help them whereever I can.....some parents dont want your help. I have new parents right now, their daughter is 5 mo. and I have learned to keep my comments low and mind my own business. I just do what they ask and try and keep them happy, they too seems a little picky. I also feel a little "egg-shellish". I read them in the beginning an drealized the books they have read and the doctors advice is more valuable to them than my point of view, so.....when they pick up at night, I answer questions quick and let them know the babies last bottle. no more details than needed. they are just that kind of people, the more you say...the more they seem to question you.