I agree with the pull up thing. That's why I stopped putting on his pull ups. But he NEVER asks to go the bathroom and I often do a good job of remembering. But one day he peed on my COUCH, and another day, he peed on my son's blankie. He's emabarrassed to use the potty and I think it's something to do at home.

I'm a little frustrated that she gave up because now I feel like if he's not being potty trained, she's going to blame me because, as someone said, I sort of took the bull by the horns and said, this is what we're going to do. But I honestly didn't think she would give up. She just doesn't seem interested at all. I don't really want to say anything, or do anything. I think I will just continue doing what I'm doing here, but he'll be wearing pull ups (becasue my husband FLIPPED out about the couch) and I'm not going to stress over it. Maybe we'll talk about it again in the future. I just feel like since he's here 75% of his waking hours, it would be best for me to do most of the work. But I can't do it, if he's going to get away with it at home. They don't make the effort at home, I'm not making it here.