Does anyone else sometimes turn the other way and pretend not to see the non-sharing starting... just cause you're curious who would win the battle? LOL

I admit that I let the kids work it out for the most part. Problem solving skills should start at a young age. I've given up on teaching them how to share, they'll either get it or they won't. However! I teach them to be respectful and helpful and make other people feel happy and I think all of that translates to sharing eventually.

Who am I to say how long johnny gets the toy. I can't sit there with a stop watch and time how long that block was in little suzy's hand and then pass it to the next kid. If someone is being agressive or mean or just taking all the toys cause their "his" I move him to another area and we play nicely together there.