Do you all think it is our place to tell parents if we see that their child is not progressing like other kids their age? I grapple with whether or not this is a good idea or not. Parents can get very defensive adn then also I wouldn't want to make them worry for nothing if the child is fine. On the other hand, if there is a problem, I may notice it earlier because I see the child next to others his/her age. Thoughts??