The Dad and I see "eye to eye" though usually that is why I felt so free to say that. (not to mention) I am a very open provider and I have certain beliefs and stick to them, every once in a while I have a parent question my methods but for the most part, thats why they choose me because I have solid rules, and dont waiver much. (i have had people send their kids to me specifcally for a nap because they cant get them to nap at home and dont know how I do it) I love them all soooo much but truely feel, the sooner they learn the order of things/and the rules of life...the better off they'll be later in life. I just cant see having a child have "their say" all the time and not turn out to be a self centered and conceided adult. This Dad "I think" must have been having a "I want to get out of here quick and keep my kid happy" moment, and just said what he tht would keep the kid quiet. What ever.....the child went to time out, screamed and cried, I told him when he was ready to be 5 again he was welcome to join the crew! Almost time for lunch and he is happily playing.....some kids just seem to push a little harder than others to "try" and get what they want. Well, I do push harder, because the outcome is a well behaved child. All is Good. yay!!!!!!!