Oh, I have a 4 1/2 year old drama king who puts on shows for his Mom like you wouldn't believe and cries at least once a day, usually more for practically no reason. He's been like that for 3 1/2 years here. However, I give him timeouts or make him lay down on the bed to relax just as you mentioned you do. I won't put up with it. He can tantrum all he wants, but he won't get any treats or special treatment or be allowed to be with the other children until he is totally relaxed again.

I serve breakfast at 8:30 and children must be fed if they arrive at 9 or wait until lunch, so I'm with you 100% on your decision this morning.