Yeah, I think you guys are right about the playpen. The licensing place and his mom said that he would be fine on my bed (which he was up until last week) but I think enough is enough. As for the 5 yr old. She is pretty good about being quiet when she can't sleep and will play quietly, do a puzzle, color, or sometime I put a movie on my lap top for her but these last 2 weeks the 4 yr old is so distracted with any noise that I decided to just have everyone lie down to simplify things (so much for that). The crappy thing is that the kitchen and dining room are directly across from the living room so any movement and the 4 yr old is always popping up.