BE CAREFUL With your back !!

[Spixie33]

I can't say this enough but to tell everyone to really take care of yourself and your back.

I was having back pain on and off since I opened the daycare 2 years ago. The pain would come and go. I just took an Advil and powered through my days.

Then about 2 months ago I noticed my toes felt a little numb. I made a doctor's appt and she said maybe I needed more core muscles and signed me up to Physio.

The symptoms kept getting worse and I ended up in the ER and getting an MRI.

I found out this week I need a major surgery because my spine is being compressed by one of my disks.

I think it was caused by pulling kids in the wagon up and down our steep hills in the neighborhood and lifting them, bending etc. The doctors have said it looks like the spine of someone who works in the trades for a living or in a factory doing heavy work.

So...as I prepare for surgery I wanted to come and warn everyone to please be careful ....listen to your body and put yourself first. I didn't and now I am forced to.

Be careful, and protect your backs everyone

[DCP_But_Momma_1st]

Oh no I am so sorry to hear that. I throw out my back once a year and it is so bad I have to take a day or two off as I can't stand or walk. I hope I don't/havn't damaged my back like you.

So what will you do? You must have to take a long time off.

[mamaof4]

oy! i am so sorry

[Inspired by Reggio]

Oh hon ~ I could not agree more! I am so glad to hear you were able to get an MRI and a surgery booked so quickly ~ your are correct about the risk to the back in our industry being worse than someone working in trades or factory ~ there is a reason why the childcare industry is 'excempt' from the requirement to protect its workers with WSIB because we are too high a risk to actually NEEDING it that it would be a strain on the insurance system and centres would not be able to pay the preimums required

I worked in centre care for years pushing quad and six seater strollers and while it was fine when I was in my 20's and young and spry ~ I ended up herniating my disc in 1998 when a stroller 'tipped' on me in a sink hole I did not see and the jar to my back that created trying to prevent the kids from 'falling' ... I always feel like a broken record warning people who push those quad strollers full of toddler children most of whom these days weight 30 pounds or more despite being under two ~ we are not pack mules we are not meant to be pushing around multiple children day in and day out years on end in addition to all the other lifting and bending that wee children require ... this is also why I choose to follow the 'age restriction' set out by the Ontario DNA of no more than two children under the age of two ~ cause the most I ever have to push or pull is two kids ~ the others are all able to walk independently anywhere we go and in reality I only typically push a single child because as soon as they are 16 months I start encouraging them to walk beside the stroller so that by the time they are 2 they are able walkers.

[Momof4]

Spixie, I hope your surgery and recovery are perfect and quick without too much pain. That sounds awful! Poor baby! Take care and do everything your doc tells you to do to get stronger and healthier.

I'm strong for an old broad, and always I'm amazed at you younguns who fall apart way too young with sprains and strains. I do have a wagon but I stopped using it a few years ago and opted for a double stroller and to make sure I start practicing my little ones to walk beside the stroller with the backpacks and ropes attached to my hands because I don't deserve the pain and suffering pulling a heavy wagon.

I had inflamed rotator cuffs in my shoulders and a bad back and carpal tunnel syndrome and tennis elbows at my last job at the medical lab because of repetitive strain injuries. Now, I take much better care of myself.

By the way, they told me none of these things would heal but they have all healed!

[playfelt]

One of the reasons I stopped doing school age care was because I was tired of pulling the wagon load of kids every day. Now we go as far as my back yard most of the time. For the age I look after - under 3 I have everything I need in the yard.

[Spixie33]

Oh no I am so sorry to hear that. I throw out my back once a year and it is so bad I have to take a day or two off as I can't stand or walk. I hope I don't/havn't damaged my back like you.

So what will you do? You must have to take a long time off.

Yes I have had to shut down one week already and then next week I hopefully get the operation and have about 6-8 weeks recovery after that.

I was feeling too guilty to shut down for 1 day to see my doctor and here I am out 10 weeks approx and I also don't know how many of my families will come back or if anyone will. Even after one week I am stressing about the finances but I have no choice but to take care of my surgery.

My back is so badly compressed that they actually have to cut me open near my chest, remove a rib, deflate a lung and then work their way to the spinal cord that way because it would be too dangerous to approach from my back. I am not facing possible paralysis, lost wages etc....all because I didn't take care of myself. It is a major surgery.

I also thought I was strong like a bull and could do it. I grew up on a farm and thought that all the bending, lifting etc was easy peasy for my body. I am in my low 30s and apparently my body thought otherwise.

Be careful.....you do not want to find yourself in this situation. The money isn't worth it if you are jeopardizing your health. I kept thinking that the dcp were counting on me, my own kids and finances were depending on me and now I realize how wrong I was.

Thanks for all the well wishes with the surgery

[Spixie33]

One of the reasons I stopped doing school age care was because I was tired of pulling the wagon load of kids every day. Now we go as far as my back yard most of the time. For the age I look after - under 3 I have everything I need in the yard.

I also haven't done school age in over a year....but pulling BIG babies in the wagon still does it. My 1 year olds were weighing 23 pounds and up. They are breeding super babies out there.

Then there were 1 year olds who would transition and would cry unless you held them, bending down to change diapers and get up again repetitively, bending and putting kids in and out of playards at nap when they weigh 20-30 lbs (and under 2) etc.

Take it easy and be safe rather than sorry

[Starshine]

I'm really sorry to hear that you have to have major surgery. I hope that everything goes as smoothly as possible and that you recover well and quickly.


So, does anyone have suggestions for taking care of our backs? There is going to be a certain amount of lifting, carrying, pushing, etc that needs to be done in this field. Should we just limit it? Does any sort of exercise or stretching help prevent back injuries?

[playfelt]

Knees are the other joints that go quickly in our business due to the bending and being down on the floor all the time.

I know some caregivers that have regular massages to keep the muscles relaxed and appointments with chiropractors to try and catch issues early but I am another one that just assumes it is easier to take a pain killer and keep going since it is too disruptive to everyone not to.

Prayers that everything goes smoothly and recovery goes quick.

For prevention remember that repetitive stress injuries are just that - doing the same thing over and over in the same way. Things like putting the baby wipes on the other side of you sometimes so you turn and reach left instead of right or carrying a child on the other hip for more of the time are little things that might pay off down the road. Sometimes we forget that we aren't kids and have to not move like they can. My body is getting up there in years and yes some days it rebels at certain movements and I rearrange the way I am doing things for a few days till it settles down. But backs and bending are something we have no control over in our line of work. Thank you for reminding us that we need to pay attention when our bodies are talking to us.