Play and learn: i do understand that some children will explore these areas due to a sensation of such nature, but I DO think she just has a comfy place to put her hand, it it ussually placed in the front of her diaper not to her "private" area.........this is getting a little misconstrued, my concern is: how to give her something else to do rather than place her hand on her "lower abdomine" IN HER DIAPER, where it is dirty.