Frustrating! I have that issue with my sister. She has been too "tired" since my niece was born (she is 13 years old now) to cook real meals or be bothered to serve up healthy meals. My sister is obese (over 300 pounds) and doesn't know much about nutrition. They lived on fast food, chocolate bars, chips, chicken nugget and fries. Whenever I went to visit, I couldn't help but notice that they didnt have any fruits or veggies in their fridge. I tried over and over again to teach my sister about nutrition. I talked, and talked, and talked! But in the end, my sister preferred to take the easy way out and stick with junk food. My niece is overweight and gaining fast, but my sister seems to think that instant soup noodles and pasta are good food choices for her daughter!