I also agree with the treating yourself once in a while .... do not even have to wait to after work ... if there a Starbucks within walking distance of your house cause walk the kiddies over and get yourself one and treat them to a cookie or something

I regularly buy myself fresh flowers for the playroom when they are a good price ~ cause it cheers me up and well we should be surrounded by beautiful things not just cause it is Valentines or Mothers Day or our Anniversary but just CAUSE!