agree with kangaroomama and reggio. you shouldnt put yourself in a "risk" situation like that, I'm sure you have way too much to lose. and reggio is right too, those parents shouldnt expect one person to take on a "special needs" child and a house of other kids as well, thats just not a safe choice from the parents stance. (i know it is "new" for them though) but maybe you could help edge them toward other care options, more of a one on one for this boy. It may just keep him alive rather than that "worst case scinario" of he has a seizure and then another child gets ingured.....ahhhh! I would go crazy out of worry for the moment it happens again. I always remind myself of the responsability we providers have of these parents "pride and joy" I'd like to think if something happened that what out of my control that I wouldnt be "blamed" by the parent, but when people are hurting they dont think rational, IF something happened to him, you could be blamed for not doing CPR correct or not calling 911 fast enough, and end up in prison! I know its a crazy thought but it could happen. In our world, there always has to be "someone to blame" dont be that person.