Yarnlover, I am open to all opinions, thank you for yours, I appreciate it. I personally don't feel "right" letting her cry....that's why I wrote this post.....however I don't know any other way that "works" so maybe I should look up that book.

She sleeps through the night fine though. Has since 5 weeks!!! It's her naps during the day....which used to be fine. lol So I get enough sleep, that's probably why I have been fine with picking her up out of her crib when she cries.

My concern is that she's not getting enough sleep during the day. her morning sleep is now 20-30mins usually (sleeping on me) and then her afternoon nap is 45mins-1hr or so which is with me driving around in the car. She's a pretty happy baby most of the time but she definitely has bags under her eyes from the lack of sleep during the day and in the evening she is sooooo tired.

I feel bad leaving her to cry but I also feel bad that she is so tired.

I have tried staying in the room, rubbing her back, singing to her, etc etc but as long as I am in the room she won't stay lying down, she cries and keeps sitting up. Even with me laying her back down over and over and over. She doesn't give up. lol