OOOOOOH! it sounds like you have much more reason to stay home!!!!! you can make it work, I commend ANY Mom in this day and age who puts her kids first by either staying home and taking the cut in income to put the kids first or staying home to work make money for the family and raise her babies, your daughter needs you, no one can take care of any child better than a "GOOD" Mommy. (there are many "not good" Mommies out there) so stay home and make things work. I think going to the basement even toward the end of the day will really help with the hubby issue, I have been there for almost 10 years, my husband does not enjoy having people in and out and kids running a muck all day long in the house, so if yours is even a touch of mine, I think getting into a dif area will really help, and give your husband the respect he deserves, its his home also. Change your hours and VWALA! you just may have a recipe for happy day care living!!!!! good luck!