I know this is harsh but who f**king cares what your dcks parents think! This is your life and you need to do what is right for YOU and your children. If you don`t think you can do it, don`t. There is no sense in doing something you hate. And if you don`t like it, the kids won`t be happy, and neither will the parents.

Do what YOU need to do and don`t look back!