Quote Originally Posted by kidlove View Post
NOW!!!!! Now is the appropriate time to end it! well actually about last week or earlier! ha ha
No joke....this is not going well, and it seems its only getting worse! From someone who has been there a time or two! (not proud to admit) but, this is NOT going to go any better than it is now...the nature of the job is to have "feast or famin" (sp). but keeping your sanity and good rep in tact is SO MUCH MORE IMPORTANT! dont be surprised if she tries to "drag you through the mud" by attempting to threaten you or trying to spread "bad things" to others, people like this are all over the world, us "good moral charactors" need to OVERCOME! these screwed up individuals! and not let them rule our "sleep" and days! Get rid of her NOW! Just remember....you are not making things any better by allowing her to continue her "ranting" AT you with her threatening words and ignorant comments. the last comment of "going forward, I advise you act act respectfully and rationally" is a threat.....thats where I would draw the line. Take the High Road! Let her know "her child was a pleasure and you can no longer provide care" wish her luck and have her take her child today and not come back!!!!!!!! let go of any further payment, money is not worth the abuse she is giving you.......NO MATTER WHAT, hold back ANY comments or responses to her ignorant attitude. Take the HIGH road! It takes a "fool" to argue with a "fool"...dont be a fool. I think I will be quite angry with you if you continue to care for this womans child, shes nasty and doesnt deserve your time a minute longer!!!!!!!!!!!!

I always have Faith.....what you need is always provided, you are NOT going to starve over the lack of one big creap!!!!!! good luck!
lol well, I don't want you to be mad at me so I think I will terminate. My husband wants me to. He never liked the kid to begin with. The only thing is, dad is SO nice and reasonable, and of course, he tried to smooth things over this morning at drop off. I only see mom once a day for 30 seconds and they ARE leaving at the end of October, but I am so resentful, and so is she, that any little thing might set us off. It always is bad and you're right, it won't get better. It hurts me, but letting him go might be a good idea. I just got an email for a little girl for part time, which I don't usually do, but at this point, I don't think it's such a bad idea.

I'll write out the term letter and they'll get it tomorrow when they leave. It sucks, and I hate not having money, but you're right. At this point, I'm like a prostitute. I'm selling myself out, and taking abuse, just for a bit of cash. Not good