Wait a minute...this guy is 3 yrs old? ooooohhhhh!!!!!! thats too old to have SUCH a har dtme. for some reason in your other post regarding not playing, I was thinking he was more like 1 or so. hmmm! wouldnt give it too much effort, he may just be a "spoiled" child. in which case...those ones are no fun at all! I would at least change him once, but I get you there, feels kind of strange havinga three year old scream and cry when you change their diaper. unless there is something wrong with him, I would tell parents by 3.5 (if you still have him then) you can no longer provide care if he's not trained. thts crazy, how old is he exactly?