oh mama mia, right there with you! I too have a nephew that my sis has turned into a monster!!!!! luckily he has been with me for 2 days a week and seems to be getting better with age, but he is literally THE MOST spoiled "stinker" I have EVER seen! She allows him to literally "climb" her body and pull out her hair (it's cute ) He shoves random things in her mouth, no joke....and she lets him. the other day we were sitting on the floor playing with a sticker off his wipe container, out of no where he starts attempting to "SHOVE" this sticker in my mouth, the more I moved my head and said "no" the more agressive and upset he got with me. He was trying to "run" me like he does her!!!! little sh**! I have to smile inside but at the very same time I think to myself "what a monster they have created" he also shoves her keys in her mouth oh and one time at a dinner, he started climbing her, pulling her hair, putting his hands in the food on OTHER PEOPLES plates and in drinks, and climbing onto the table, (he was about 14 mo) she looks at me and says "he always does this to me, and no one else" I couldnt hold it in any more, I just looked at her and said "he does it because you let him do it!" ooooohhh! she was so mad at me, told me this is why she and hubby want to move, everybody trying to tell them how to raise their child......SOMEONE HAS TOO!!!!! i love her so much but, what the crud? some people just dont get it!!!!