glad to hear I'm not the only one who has concerns over the way a loved one is "screwing up" their kid!!!!! makes me feel better about the whole thing, parenting is such a controversial subject, there is alot of emotion in guarding our choices and sometimes feelings can be quite hurt...I have ruffled my sis's feathers on more than a few occasions. Litrally caused then to concider moving to another state just to get away from the comments of their family (not just me)