Thanks ladies for all the words! The support I receive on this board is priceless. My husband told me to not allow this woman to rent any more space in brain but I'm still seething. It's the sentence where she told me to next time do my job that got me over the edge. And then the way she spoke to me on the phone...

The reason why she wanted to take me to court was because since they started, I changed my policies. There's a section on misconduct - that I promise to always remain professional however, if there is ever a time where I am feeling arrassed, abused or confronted in my own home, the parent will be terminated immediately and they forfeit any deposit or payment that have already made. UNFORTUNATELY, it wasn't on her contract, which I didn't realize. So, my husband paid the money but because he's such a smarty pants, left it open to my being able to take action if she contacts me again.

I am really sad over this. I was worried about telling my kids, and they honestly didn't care. I said "I'm sad that he's gone, are you?" I wanted them feel like it was OK to be sad. But they said no and moved on. But I was almost in tears lol. This kid wasn't here long and I know I will find others, but maybe it's just the circumstances. It's just sad that all this had to happen. When we were on the phone, I was so upset and frazzled I called her a mean person lol imagine! A grown woman calling someone else mean, but she didn't like it lol apparently she doesn't like being called mean. She's probably been called mean before. I don't know how her husband puts up with her.

Oh well, onward and upward, right?