Thanks guys that's the exact answer I was hoping for. I felt like ok this is ridiculous but my entourage and even my husband was saying to let her go at her own time. But I know my little girl is just playing stubborn ...just like her mom I tried being more firm with her but I doubted it since everyone else was saying not to push her. So she does play the game I truly beleive I think it's the right thing to do.
@ JennJubie, Yes I did that with her as well but after a while all the methodes I use fail. It's like she says ok I've done this and then it became a fight to get her on the potty. So I think I will have to go with a mix of Crayola's suggestion and playfelt. I want to reward good behaviour but I also have to correct the 'bad one'. I think I'll do a 2 strikes and your in diapers type of thing. I worrie about juts putting her in diapers for a week until she goes eveytime as she might just go back to her pull ups and not care ... She's the type.

Thanks so much!!