Thanks ! Well today I've had more success !! She did 'forget' a couple of times so she had mini accidents in her pants but finished in the potty. I think she just got used to pee in her pants so much she would forget. So I did not put a diaper on after the second accident as she did ask for the potty when she realised she was getting a litle bit wet.

When I knew she had to go but refused I said you either sit on the potty or sit in a time out ...what do you want ? So she went potty and when she did I would give her a small treat of anykind. The right to watch 15 min. of TV, a cookie ... anything as the stickers and the calendar do not work anymore. She is very persistant when she wants too and can't really be "bought'' So I prefer rewarding once the deed as been done. The incentives never really worked consistantly for anything with her. But I did tell her that if she wanted to keep her underwear she had to go potty otherwise she would wear the diapers. It seemed to work because she did not want a diaper. Before bed I said I was very happy she used the potty all day and that tomorrow we would do the same thing.