Parents are dumb!! [Long]

[Mamma_Mia]

I'm SO Annoyed!!!!!!!
10mos old dcg arrives this morning at 8:20am and mom says she was up at 6am and ate at 6:30am. Mom doesn't have her on a consistant wake up schedule. Some days its 6am others 8am...if it was my daughter up at 6am I'd give her a bottle and back to bed missy! but no, whatever time she's up at is right to play time.
At around 10am I got a text from mom but I didn't answer it. We were at the park and they text too many times asking how she's doing, what she ate etc. etc. so I'm slowly letting them know I'm BUSY and have time to answer those questions at the end of the day at PU!!

When I read the text at 11:30 I was shocked....Wanting me to keep the baby awake from 6am to 12pm....no morning nap & wanting me to follow the routine set at home. All in hopes baby wont wake up during the night anymore since she'll be so tired and act 'more like 'herself'.

a) Are you kidding me? she should follow MY routine not yours since she is here 5 days a week and only 2 days with you!
b) you are a pushover who has created this monster and are now complaing about it/her!!! she wakes up at night wanting her soother which is in.her.hand to be put back into her mouth and you "sillys" GO RUNNING to her and do it for her!!! How about the fact she can put it back in on her own and....and....and... ..that she doesn't even use one when shes here!!!! Stop running to her everytime and she WILL GO TO SLEEP!
c) all kids act differently at daycare vs at home!!! It's a fact.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR RRRR!!!!!!!!!!

So here I am acting like an fool. Making her believe I'm following HER rules as she BELIEVES is MY BOSS and I must PRETEND do as she wants! I hate this! Even though I'm doing it my way anyways I just hate having to lie like this!

Sorry for the long post....this is really bugging me today.