I know "vengeance" sounds great. but think long and hard before you really pursue any type of legal battle, it could bring more stress than needed. Sounds like you don't "need" any right now. We do live in a "eye-for-an-eye" world......but thats not always the answer. Perhaps just a "threat" toward this woman will suffice and you and your GREAT husband can go on with your lives. Put the past behind you and move forward, dwelling on the trouble, just keeps the trouble around!

Prayers for your Husbands surgery! Nothing to evasive I hope. Prayers none the less!