But, wait a minute, my first thought was: does he have any bruises? Maybe a spanking on the diaper is what happened? You know what I would do? I would tell the Dad and see his reaction. It is part of our job to make sure the children in our care are safe. And it affects our liability if a child arrives with bruises or god forbid was shaken. I read about that happening and the child died at daycare. That's really scary for the children of course, but also for us. We have to make sure the children are healthy when they arrive. Oh, I'm sorry you have to deal with this.