Potty time and mixed genders

[kidlove]

Totally agree alpha. a body is a body, they are all pretty much made the same. no big deal. My Mom thinks its crazy we all showered together. "Hubby and son" "Daughter and me". My Mom was like "what?" like its wierd or gross.....something is only weird or gross, if you make it weird or gross. We see it as conserving water (not to mention) teaching proper hygene. (My son washes "exactly" how Daddy does) ha ha! now this is a PRIME example of "what works for one" may or may not work for everyone. But that works for us...none of us have much patience and we spend ALOT of "family time together" (outside the shower haha) therefore, by the end of the night, it's GO GO GO!!!! to get ready for bed. No diferent from showering in a locker room. Every one minds their own bees wax and washes up. We decided to go with like gender however....after my son decided to talk to my boobs rather than my face one night...ha ha, realized he was ready to shower with just Dad after that. (take us or leave us! )