Thanks for your view Reggio. Was nice (and long) to have another opinion. You have some great points, respect girlfriend. Still doesn't change my mind, I will continue to spank (if neccesary) and hope my kids will raise their kids the same and on and on for generations to come. I respect and honor my Grandparents and Parents ways of life and will continue those "ways" passing on to my kids who will pass to theres. I understand your view point and respect it...it's you right. However the more we try to analyze and fix the world IMO the more "screwed up" it will be. "Just leave well enough alone", that's my motto. God gave me the intelligence to do what I do, I didn't have to further my education to become a good Mom, just have to rely on the good Lord and I have all the know how I need. Some call it "street smarts" some call it "common sense" what ever you call it, thats all you need to do a good job at being a Mom and a Good Wife. No womens lib, no reading this book or that, just down right common sense. and a good role model....my momma was awsome. (so was my grammy)