It's funny Lou, but I asked this question from a lot of my peers a couple of years ago. Why I cringed when I had a certain little girl coming for the day because of her annoying personality and now I have a little boy with different things that bother me, but again it's annoying personality traits. They asked me if I like every single adult I encounter which of course is impossible. But I had it in my mind that all children were loveable and they ARE NOT! It just surprised me. Sounds like it surprised you too.