Worst transition ever need some advice!

[kidlove]

Only you know if you can handle it or not.....it will get better. How long? not sure, depends on the child and depends on you. How you handle the stress, how you play with him, lots comes into effect. What is your "trial" period? and...............yo u dont charge for "transition days"?

[superfly]

Mom has given me toys from home to keep at the daycare, plus sleep friend and blanket with the family scent on it. At Nap time I do play soft music in the back ground and have a fan so the room isn't to warm. I'm not super concerned at the moment about the nap, I'm more concerned about how scared he is over being away from his mom. Should I also mention that he is unable to scoot/crawl, or walk. I was told they don't have alot of friends/family around the area so no, he hasn't been taken care of by anyone else. A few weeks ago I did suggest to mom that mom and dad should try to get out a bit more on their own so he could feel a bit more comfortable around other people. And I agree that going to part time is not the answer but that is her suggestion becasue she feels we're moving to fast. She is starting work full time next tuesday I'm not sure how we are moving to fast we've been working on this for 3 weeks now trying to get him ready and I'm not getting anywhere. My security deposit is non refundable and covers the last two weeks of child care with notice, I'm not officially starting until Monday. Lesson learned escape clasue, for kids that just can't deal with life.