I don't charge for transitions, I've never needed more than a 1/2 day or day before for the little ones to feel comfortable and it didn't feel right to me -that doesn't mean it isn't rough the first 2 weeks of course as we both adjust. We're going to speak on friday and I feel I'll commit to 1 month and see how it goes. The parents are doing what they can but its not getting better and I think its starting to stress mom out a bit. I didn't have a trial period written into the contract, I'm not usually a give-er-up-er and I didn't expect a child to have such a hard time but I guess it's a lesson learned for next time.