So at meal time I put the babies in hightchairs and the older kids sit at a kid size table. The problem is the the older kids eat really slow, and the babies finish first and fuss if i try to keep them in the chairs and if i were to let them out they try to grab stuff off the big kid table. I was thinking should i set a time line for meals and snacks? I can feed the babies and be done in 15-20 mins. Would this be a good aloted time for the big kids too? After that take the food a way? What do you ladies do?