Wow.....I've never had that happen. Most of my clients, past and present, pretty much fell all over themselves with gratitude (the women more so than the men). I'm sure that's left you with some hurt feelings....very strange. I've always had kids open at daycare. When mom comes, they're super excited to show off the gift, so parents get the picture of how important that gift is to them.

I have to say, you're very generous! I acknowledge birthdays with a cake, but no gifts. I do get presents at Xmas with a $12 limit, no card. I also have the kids do a 'Secret Santa' so everyone has a couple gifts to open without me paying out a fortune.