Alpha....that Mom is ridiculous, show them the door!!!! My 2 year old daughter has a peanut allergy. Everyone we know, knows about it. I agree with REGGIO that she must not be anaphylactic...no parent would forget to tell you, forget epi pen and to show you how to use it or allow peanut butter in their home!!!!! Must be a mild allergy with ingestion only. Much easier to make sure nothing is eaten. This is the case with my daughter but we have an epi pen just in case. Regardless of how serious her reactions are or what insurance you need, they neglected to TELL you of the allergy putting their own child at risk!