Wouldn't take the risk, these are the kinds of things that I always "picture in my head" as being what could destroy me. what if...she has an allergy and dies, just what if? (i know its far fetched) but I operate my day care on alot of "what ifs", may be the only thing to protect me sometimes.
to say the very least, I like my household as "stress free" as posible, that doesn't include a child with severe allergy to such a "typical" thing. Not to mention, Hubby is a weighing factor...my husbands opinion very often outweighs my desires. Much Man Respect in this house!!