Hey kidlove, so sorry, why didn't we see this thread? Good job Dodge bringing it up. I definitely didn't see it. How's it going a month later Kidlove? Any better? It sounds like sister problems. I have two daughters in their 20's who can tick each other off lately at the drop of a hat and they were so close all their lives. People sometimes change a lot depending on the man they are with so I don't understand it.

Just one thing. If it is unbearable for you to have your nephew in your daycare then find a way to get your sister to move him somewhere else without causing permanent damage. You could blame everything on yourself so she continues to feel like the perfect parent. I had my grandson in my daycare and I had to be gentle with my daughter because sometimes a 20 something woman doesn't want to feel like a little girl and listen to her Mom, you know? It's tough when it's family.