I agree 100% with the above posters. Myself i provide 6oz of milk (2%) at lunch. If a child needs more, or a different type of milk (homo, rice, soy) then it must be provided by the parent. I also feel that this child is to old to be going to bed with a bottle, I dont do bottlea after 14mth. But if you arnt interested in stopping his botles maybe since he is used to having a bottle at nap, have you thought of reducing the amount given? Maybe 4oz.??