I have been exactly where you are, I am willing to bet that you are a very kind and caring person, and you show that to these parents. They are obviously willing to take advantage of your jenerousity rather than respect it. You are doing the right thing by finally putting your foot down, sounds like you should have done this a while ago. I can't say that I don't blame you for being upset but also can't say you didn't deserve it a little. ONLY because I am just like you and have been just where you are before. Some people will take take take and as long as you continue to give (and keep the stress unbeknownst to them) they will take some more. I have learned the hard way.....you have SET rules for a reason, they are in your contracts because you BELIEVE in them, that's the way you want to run YOUR business....so next time someone wants to move your contracts around (against your better judgement) ...remind yourself, they are trying to go against your SET rules and BELIEFS. Don't let anyone change your BUSINESS. I would either let them know everything needs to go back to YOUR rules and YOUR contract or they can find another provider who is willing to bend for them, but YOU can't do it anymore.