Well, I stuck to my guns (thanks to every ones "back-up") and it panned out well. not to mention....glad I did! Cuz.....Mom showed up late for pick-up yesterday, this is what this family does to me all the time....I offer myself but they tend to take advantage. I had earlier in the day informed her that I would not be able to take the child due to the fact that I have to prepare my own kids for school and bus and offered the "stay over" because it was best for both. Her coming early would be too hard for me.....they found someone to drop her off later in the am, no problem! AND I (for the first time in 3 years with this family) charged a late pick-up fee. Felt like a creep at first (but once I let go of "how they might feel about me") felt really good to put my foot down. Here's to hoping they think before they try to "use" me again! thanks all!!!