I don't think I've ever met a parent who DIDN'T want me to involve their child in activities. I mean, how are you going to handle when parents come to pick up the other children? Those parents are stangers to that child too....in fact the other dck are strangers are too....how far until this is "too much". Can you go to the bus stop? have a new child enter into your care?

*** you see this is asking HER what you CAN do, that's already a issue, a BIG one ***