Thanks. There definitely were red flags....such as - he's a vegetarian, who is lactose intolerant, who can't have his food cooked with anything but coconut or olive oil (of the best variety), who must eat quinoa and spaghetti squash...list goes on. (And of course I've already purchased much of his dietary needs...gr) In that sense it's a blessing...but my husband is putting extreme pressure on me to find someone - even to the extent that he wants me to take on another 1 yo (cuz that's what everyone is looking for)...I will most certainly burn out if I do that, but he doesn't understand.

Thanks again for letting me vent.