cfred, you hit the nail on the head, I have a little one who Mom says "oh, he won't eat any kind of lunch meat on a sandwich, only PB and J!" ah okay? well I can't just feed him PB and J every single day, that's crazy (but that's what he gets at home) I offered him turkey sandwich one day and he ate it all including the provalone cheese and it had mayo on it, :O for a boy who "only will eat PB and J"....he did pretty well. Knowing the Mother, I am guessing he rejected it ONE time and she took that as, "never liked it, and will never eat it!" He is only as picky as SHE lets him be. When he is with her? YES, he is "picky" about everything.....he's spoiled!