I have a pt 4 year old, (once a week) who is a fussy eater. He does not like most of the items I have prepared for lunch. I have asked his mother for suggestions but I with no avail. I hear that some people use a food list? What does this look like or contain...I am at my wits end here. Its not fair to the other children that when he is here I am serving the same food. Plus last week he refused morning snack, a wrap with cream cheese and jam, and broccoli an cheese quiche for lunch. All the other children loved both new items. Suggestions please.